I (Bethany) clearly remember assuming that my boyfriend and I were on the same page about our beliefs and convictions. We didn’t take the time to ask the hard of questions and really get to know each other.

I made a lot of assumptions. Things didn’t end so well as a result. 

When Dav and I started our relationship, I didn’t want to make the same mistake. I compiled and created a list of 136 questions to help guide our conversations and make sure we actually talked through as much as possible while dating. 

This isn’t a magical list.

It’s not a “fool-proof” method or anything like that.

You are getting to know a real person, with a real heart, and real thoughts and emotions. The goal of this list is to keep you from getting completely emotionally attached without asking the important questions.