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Choosing to Reflect Christ in a Self-Absorbed Society

When the two of us were in high school, we strategized a plan to draw as much attention to ourselves as possible.

We strapped on the high heels and strutted through the mall. We soaked up the attention we received from the young guys working the kiosks and enjoyed every glance that turned our way.

Attention. That’s what we wanted.

We wanted people to look at us. We wanted people to admire us. We wanted to people to stare at us. We wanted all eyes on us.

Fast forward ten(ish) years to today and our goal is no longer to bring attention to ourselves but to point others to Christ. He truly is the only one worthy of worship, honor, and praise.

Our lives are simply meant to reflect Him and point others to Him.

December 21, 2016 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

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