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10 Verses to Help You Choose Kindness in the Midst of Chaos

Kind words do not naturally flow out of my mouth. I’m quick to speak my opinion, to respond without really listening, and to say what I want to say without thinking through how my words impact the person listening. Especially at a time like this. Tensions are high and fear is pressing in. It’s easy […]

Popular Christian Advice That’s Actually Unbiblical

During the past 8 years of my journey through infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss, I have been given a lot of advice and input from all sorts of people. I honestly don’t mind this because I know most people are well meaning. They’re showing their care and love for me by offering words of encouragement […]

What to Look for When Trying to Find a Mentor

I wanted a mentor in life. I understood the value of having a godly older woman pour into me and offer me wisdom. I didn’t need convincing. I just couldn’t think of a woman who fit the bill. It took me several years (yes, years) of praying before I finally found my mentor.  Having the […]

4 Reasons You’re Struggling to Have a Consistent Quiet Time 

The struggle is real. I feel it every single week. Almost every time I sit down to read my Bible and pray, I feel a vortex of distraction coming at me from every direction. Can you relate? Having a focused and consistent quiet time is a battle most Christians face. If you’re in a place […]

Christian Girl, You Don’t Need to Love Yourself More to Find Lasting Worth

She stood in the bathroom on top of the counter, looked into the mirror and started reciting her morning pump-up mantra.  “I am awesome” “I am amazing”  “I am the best!” “I can do anything” With a final look of confidence and a smile at herself through the reflection, she went along with her day. […]

Dear Single Sister, Don’t Settle (It’s Not Worth It)

Dear Single Sister, as you look around at your friends and see them in relationships, I know it can be  hard to stay content. I remember the feelings all too well myself. The loneliness can hit anytime and feel all consuming. Especially on the weekends when everyone seems to be going out with their significant […]

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