Most single women will immediately judge a guy based on his outward appearance. Is he cute? Am I attracted to him? Is he hot?! These are often the first questions we ask ourselves. We’re immediately interested in really good looking guys and less interested in guys that don’t fit our “physical criteria.” We’re slow to take interest in an average looking guy, even if he has a great personality and godly character. 

Yes, being attracted to your future spouse is an important factor, but how important should it be? 

What’s the balance? Is attraction really as crucial as we make it out to be? What should we, as Christian girls, value the most in our future husband?

Think about your life 5, 10, and even 20 years down the road. What kind of qualities will you want in a husband and father then? 

In today’s vlog, let’s dig into this topic and figure out how to have a healthy, Biblical, and Christ-centered balance when it comes to how we prioritize physical attraction in our romantic relationships.