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Never Been Asked Out on a Date

Year after year goes by and you wonder if anyone will ever ask you out on a date.

Whether you’re in your teens, twenties, thirties, or even forties, it can be really hard if you’ve never been asked out or even pursued by a guy.

What not to do?

  1. Don’t believe the lie that you are less than.
  2. Don’t find your identity in having a guy or not having a guy.
  3. Don’t chase down guys out of desperation
  4. Don’t settle because you just want a guy.

What to do?

  1. Trust that God is good and sovereign (Prov 3:5-6).
  2. Thrive in your singleness by living for God
  3. Get a mentor. Ask for spiritual and practical help.
  4. Find good community and get involved

September 5, 2018 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Dating, Singleness, Trust, Waiting

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