It’s that time of year again. The radio is playing love songs. The movies portray nothing but perfect romance stories. And all of your friends seem to be “falling in love.”

Christmas can be hard when it feels like cupid’s arrows are hitting everyone but you. Hot chocolate, Christmas carols, and warm fires just seem to pale in comparison to true love.

And then that song comes on and taunts you with its words… “all I want for Christmas is you.“

If this December finds you thinking thoughts like, “all I want for Christmas is a boyfriend!” then today’s video was made just for you. Instead of struggling through another December, there is a better way.

We want to share with you 3 down-to-earth and practical tips for finding hope and joy this Holiday season — even without a boyfriend.