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Who Should Do the Pursuing in a Relationship?

You like him and you want a relationship with him. The problem? He isn’t pursuing you.

When the two of us were single, we found ourselves in this position time-and-time again. I’m sure you can relate. You notice a guy. You like him. You want to start a relationship. But nothing is happening.

It’s pure silence from his end.

Should you make the first move? Should you pursue him? Should you ask him out on a date? Should you slide into his DM’s and let him know he’s on your mind?

Let’s jump into these questions and see what God’s Word has to say.

June 19, 2019 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Boyfriend, Dating, Femininity, Guys, Manhood, Relationships, Womanhood

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