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Is Watching Porn Less Sinful than Committing Adultery w/ David Beal

Is Watching Porn Less Sinful than Committing Adultery w/ David Beal

A prominent conservative recently made some comments about porn that got everyone talking. Many started discussing whether viewing porn was an okay substitute for actually going out and cheating on (committing adultery) your spouse.

Do men need sexual variety and therefore need porn as a way to handle their sexuality well?

Is porn an okay addition if you and your spouse have a committed relationship? Should you be thankful your husband is viewing porn rather than sleeping around?

Let’s unpack all of this and more with Bethany’s husband, David Beal.

May 24, 2023 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Lust, Pornography

Is Watching Porn Less Sinful Than Committing Adultery? w/ David Beal

Ep. 128 – A prominent conservative recently made some comments about porn that got everyone talking. Many started discussing whether viewing porn was an okay substitute for actually going out and cheating on (committing adultery) your spouse.

Do men  need sexual variety and therefore need porn as a way to handle their sexuality well?

Is porn an okay addition if you and your spouse have a committed relationship?

Should you be thankful your husband is viewing porn rather than sleeping around?

Let's unpack all of this and more with Bethany's husband, David Beal.

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The Unrealistic Standard of Perfection on Women

Ep. 127 – Enjoy this replay. Finding purpose, worth, identity, and true joy are core desires of every woman. Sadly though, many of us are finding ourselves in a place that is void of the very things we long for. This is because we’re looking to ourselves and the world for answers about our purpose, worth, and identity as women rather than God’s Word.

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Lust and Sexual Fantasy as a Married Woman

As a Christian married woman, have you ever let your mind linger a little too long on that handsome man at church? Or that old high school flame that you thought was out of your mind? What about that godly married man that you’re beginning to feel emotionally connected to?

This isn’t a comfortable or easy topic…but we need to get honest and talk about it with one another. Battling lust and fantasy in our minds – as married women – is a real battle we need to engage in.

May 10, 2023 by Kristen Clark

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Lust and Sexual Fantasy as a Married Woman

Ep 126 – Many married women find themselves having intercourse with their husband physically, but they're a million miles away in their minds. 

Sexual temptation doesn't disappear when you get married. The lustful heart that was there before marriage is the same lustful heart that goes into marriage. This isn't a comfortable or easy topic. Opening up about sinfully lusting and fantasizing about other men isn't easy.

Let's jump into this uncomfortable but needed conversation. 

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Body Image Struggles and the Christian Woman

Ep. 125 – Growing up in a family with five sisters gave us tons of room for comparison. We're all different heights, weights, body types and just look different. We all had to work hard to appreciate and THANK God for our differences.

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