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Popular Advice Christian Women Give That’s Actually Unbiblical

Popular Advice Christian Women Give That’s Actually Unbiblical

Christian women are notorious for giving “feel good” encouragement and positive affirmations.

“You’re enough.”

“Your turn is next!”

“Everything will be okay.”

“God wants to give you the desires of your heart!”

“You just need to forgive yourself.”

“Marriage is definitely in your future.”

“Good things are coming your way.”

These all sound nice and great and make us feel good… but are they true? Are they biblical?

Let’s unpack this together on episode 103.

November 15, 2022 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Discernment, Encouragement

Popular Advice Christian Women Give that's Actually Unbiblical

Ep. 103 – Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment.

"You're enough."
"Your turn is next!"
"You'll get that baby soon."
"Marriage is in your future."
"Good things are coming your way."

These all sound nice and great and make me feel good… but are they true? Are they biblical?

In today's episode, we're unpacking why this "fluffy feel good" advice is more damaging than helpful.

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November 14, 2022 by Kristen Clark

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5 Things Christian Women DO NOT WANT

Feminism has been the loudest voice in our culture for women. Our modern society assumes ALL women want abortion, autonomy from family, enslaving careers, power over men AND to be called “birthing people.” But is that really true for ALL women?! Is this what we want?

No.

If you still value femininity, motherhood, marriage, and male chivalry, this episode is for you.

Listen to Ep. 102 on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen.

November 9, 2022 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Family, Feminism, Womanhood

5 Things Christian Women Do Not Want

Feminism has been the loudest voice in culture for women. Feminism acts like ALL women want abortion, autonomy, careers, power over men and more. But is that really true for ALL women? No.

We took a poll on Instagram and you all submitted things you DO NOT WANT. Things like "hustle culture" and "being a boss babe." If you value femininity, motherhood, and chivalry, this episode is for you.

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November 7, 2022 by Kristen Clark

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How Do I Know If I Have the Gift of Singleness?

Many Christian single women wonder if they have the gift of singleness. If marriage hasn't happened yet… maybe singleness is God's calling on your life. This is a legit line of thinking and one that deserves good/biblical answers.

Join Kristen and Bethany as they bring clarity to this confusing conversation.

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October 31, 2022 by Kristen Clark

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Answering Your Assumptions About Us

Ep. 100 – Lets celebrate the 100th episode with an extra special conversation. We've covered some pretty intense topics over the lifespan of this podcast. Masturbation, feminism, birth control, drag queens, marriage, biblical womanhood and more. It's time to take a little break and have some fun.

In today's episode, we're answering your assumptions about us! Everything from "Bethany is the black sheep of the family" to "you two are leaving Girl Defined." Let's dive into what's true and what's not!

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