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Is it Wrong to Have ZERO Desire for Marriage?

Is it Wrong to Have ZERO Desire for Marriage?

When it comes to the topics of dating and marriage, we often talk about them from the angle of Christian women who DESIRE marriage. But what if you’re one of the many women who have emailed us saying that you have zero desire for marriage. What then? What does the Bible say to women like you? Let’s unpack this much-needed topic together.

December 31, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Desires, Marriage, Singleness

Best Dating Advice for Christian Women w/ JP Pokluda

JP Pokluda knows what it takes to date with success as a Christian. After ministering to singles for over a decade, he’s seen the pitfalls and struggles firsthand and is here to offer you a radically better way to date!

JP is the author of “Outdated: Find Love that Lasts When Dating Has Changed.”

December 18, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Boyfriend, Dating, Love, Relationships, Romance

A Radically Better Way to Date with JP Pokluda

Ep.  058 – After ministering to singles for over a decade, JP Pokluda knows what it takes to date with success as a Christian. He’s seen the pitfalls and struggles firsthand and is here to offer you a radically better way to date. 

In today’s episode, JP brings powerful insight and wisdom directly to the Girl Defined Sisterhood! He covers everything from the pitfalls of modern dating, what to look for in a guy, how to know if you have the gift of singleness, how to ask your boyfriend if he struggles with porn, physical attraction, arranged marriages, and much more. 

Don’t miss this incredible conversation as JP helps you date intentionally and find love that lasts.

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December 13, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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How Important is Physical Attraction in Dating?

He’s a great Christian guy and seems to have a heart of gold…but there’s just one small problem – you’re not attracted to him at all!

What should you do?

Is it okay to turn a guy down simply because you’re not attracted to him physically?

Does the Bible have anything to say about this?

Is it even worth getting to know him to see if attraction grows? Let’s unpack this popular (and hard) topic together. 

Learn more about God’s design for dating and romance in our book, Love Defined: Embracing God’s Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships.

December 10, 2021 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Beauty, Dating, Guys, Relationships, Romance

How Fear and Anxiety Almost Kept Me from Adopting my Boys

Ep. 057 – Adoption had never been something I (Kristen) saw myself doing. I always imagined I'd have biological children.  Little did I know that 10 years into my marriage, I'd only have three miscarriages,  dozens of doctors visits, and an unexplained diagnosis of infertility to show for it. Although I felt lost and broken, God had a perfect plan. I'll be totally honest. The thought of adoption scared me. I was extremely fearful  and often overcome with anxiety about the "what ifs."

Thankfully God never left me. He never gave up on me. Through prayer, and a ton of support from family and friends, my husband and I stepped out in faith. This is my story of becoming mommy to my two sweet boys.

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December 6, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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Empowering Christian Women to Live for What Truly Matters

Do you want to live for what truly matters? I promise you that living for Christ will FREE you from the weight and anxiety of striving to please others. This message will empower you as a Christian woman with biblical hope and truth.

You were made to shine bright for Christ! Let’s figure out how to do that together.

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November 30, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Encouragement, Truth, Womanhood

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