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Three Me-Free Questions for the Girl Who Wants to Stop Comparing

FREEBIE: Download Shannon’s “Heart-Steadying Reminders for the Comparison Girl” which includes screensavers, prayer cards, story templates, and more. I was in a car with a group of my college friends, and Jen was telling her embarrassing story about falling on her boyfriend’s ankle during a volleyball game. The ankle was sprained, the boyfriend was on crutches, […]

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Navigating Miscarriage and Pregnancy as Sisters

Over the past year, the two of us have experienced some major highs and some major lows. Kristen and Zack have been on a 9-year long journey of infertility and unfulfilled longings. They have experienced three miscarriages and a lot of heartache along with those losses. Bethany and Dav started a relationship in 2017, got […]

Don’t Get Trapped in the Comparison Game

I accidentally went to the gym at the same time as my friend yesterday (I’ll call her Samantha). I didn’t mean to be in there while Samantha was there, but she unexpectedly came by while I was still working out. Immediately, I began to play the comparison game in my mind. Wow, that fitted top looks […]

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Getting to the Heart of Jealousy

My heart aches as I look at the eyes of one of my best friends. ‘Is she serious?’ I think. ‘Is this really happening to me?’ For a second I convince myself that this is not real. This is just a joke. This will all turn out the way I thought it would. Waking up […]

How to Stop Worrying About What People Think of You

Everyone has an opinion about everyone else, right? We give each other labels, call each other names, and put each other in certain categories depending on what we think of that person. It can be so easy to get caught up in the trap of WORRYING about what everyone says. Worrying about what they think […]

Overcoming the Fear of What Other People Think About You

I couldn’t fall asleep. My heart was heavy and my mind was spinning with one thought – my imperfections. The day hadn’t gone very well. I thought of all the people who seemed better than me and I was overwhelmed by emotions. Eventually, I fell asleep. But mere sleep cannot remedy a struggle. Our culture […]

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