Getting honest about our sexual struggles as women can feel really hard to do. Especially when we feel like we’re the only ones struggling. After years of fighting the battle on my own, here’s how I finally found freedom.
We get a lot of questions from Christian women who are in a dating relationship wondering what it looks like to pursue sexual purity. What does God call us to pursue? What if we know we’re going to get married? What kind of boundaries are actually helpful? Are certain things okay if we love each […]
My eyes lingered a little too long. My mind wandered a little too far. Instead of fleeing the temptation, I gave into my lustful fantasies. A wave of discouragement washed over me. I had failed… again. That’s it! I told myself. That’s the last time I’m going to give into my lust. I recommitted to […]
This past year has been filled with excitement at Girl Defined Ministries. The testimonies that we heard were absolutely incredible. The growth many of you made in your relationship with God was amazing. Some of you even accepted Christ as your personal Savior for the very first time. Some of you found freedom from habitual […]
If I feel like I may never get married, is it okay to find sexual pleasure in other ways? What’s the best way to tell someone I’m waiting for marriage to have sex? How far can I go until becoming sexually impure? The two of us want you to know that you’re not alone when […]
In the wake of Joshua Harris’s recent public statement that he is no longer a Christian, many of you have emailed us asking for our thoughts on the matter. Like many of you, we grew up reading Josh Harris’s books and were greatly influenced by his bestseller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. We are products of […]
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