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Girl happy on beach

Self-Esteem: Why Christian Girls Don’t Need it

Meet Jenny. She’s a tall and lanky high school girl who wishes she was shorter and prettier. Jenny hates the way she looks. She’s never had a boyfriend and blames it on the fact that she’s too tall and too ugly. Years of bitterness and anger turn Jenny into a depressed young woman. Her parents […]

Guy in Suit

Letting Go of the Guy

I was recently in a very serious relationship with a young man, praying over the possibility of getting married. After long hours of praying, fasting, and more praying, God made His will known. Although the answer wasn’t what I had originally hoped for, I surrendered my dreams of marriage to God and ended the relationship. […]

Happy girls

How to Outshine a Supermodel

The months of preparation were finally finished. The big night was here. The runway was ready, the lights were shining, and the cameras were rolling. After ten hours of makeup, hair, spray tans, manicures, and fake eyelashes, the models were ready. They looked flawless. “And now,” the announcer said with his best radio host voice, […]

Guys Speak Out About Girls Showing Cleavage

The girls in the audience sat on the edges of their seats as they watched the video play. The speaker had recorded several different godly guys sharing their personal thoughts and opinions on the topic of modesty. The guys were asked very specific questions about modesty and then the recording was replayed on the big […]

Girl Eating Chocolate

Chocolate Covered Sin

The lights were off and we could hear our dad making his way to bed. Bethany and I pretended like we were asleep as he poked his head into our bedroom. After several minutes of lying there, I leaned over to Bethany and whispered, “the coast is clear.” We slowly opened our bedroom door and […]

Sad Girl

Bored, Single and Still Living at Home

This goes out to all the single girls still living at home! I sat down on a lawn chair on our pool deck. The summer wind blew in my hair and the sun shined warm rays on my face. I took a deep breath and a sip of my sweet tea. I stretched my legs […]

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