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How to Not Get Caught Up in Cancel Culture

How to Not Get Caught Up in Cancel Culture

What comes to mind when you hear the words, “cancel culture?” We all have our own ideas and definitions for this ever growing trend, but what’s actually happening? And how should we respond as Christians?

March 19, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Boldness, Courage, Culture

2021 Girl Defined Conference

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Join us for the 2021 Annual Girl Defined Conference! 

Following Jesus as a modern Christian girl can sometimes feel like an uphill climb. With so much pressure to conform to cultural norms and popular trends, it’s hard to live out your faith each day. How do you stand for truth when nobody else is standing with you? How do you swim against the current without losing heart and giving up?

That’s why you need to stay connected to the source of truth and power. By staying rooted in your relationship with Christ, you’ll have the daily strength you need to live boldly as a girl defined by God.

At GirlDefined ‘21 you will discover what it means to courageously live for Christ and how to have full confidence in your identity as His daughter.

We’ll be unpacking popular questions such as:

Where does my identity come from?

How do I live out my identity as a girl defined by God?

Why does shining bright for Christ even matter?

How do I live boldly when I’m being canceled and ridiculed?

And much more… We hope you’ll grab your sisters and friends and join us for this powerful 2-day conference as we learn how to embrace our true identity in Christ and shine bright for Him together. This event is geared toward girls and women ages 13-30. Moms are welcome to attend.

FOR MORE INFORMATION VISIT: www.girldefined.com/conference

March 17, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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Why I Waited Until 30 to Kiss

Ep. 019 – I never thought  I'd wait until I was 30 to experience my first kiss on my wedding day. I made the decision when I was a teenager, but I thought I'd get married in my early twenties. God had a different plan though. A few weeks ago I posted a reel to Instagram of me and my husband kissing for the first time at the altar. For whatever reason, it sparked a ton of interest. Over 3 million people viewed that video and left a ton of love on it as well. Why do people find that video so fascinating? Why is it so intriguing?

In todays show, I share with you the reasoning behind why I waited until I was 30 to kiss. I share the pros and cons of my thinking and what that journey looked like.

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March 15, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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Girl Defined Giveaway – Win a Trip to San Antonio!

We are doing the BIGGEST giveaway we have ever done here at Girl Defined. Our goal is to reach 500 Patrons and with your help we can do it! As our way of celebrating this, we will fly 3 girls from the Sisterhood (plus one friend each) to San Antonio, TX to spend a weekend with the Girl Defined team.

INFO: www.Patreon.com/GirlDefined

This incredible weekend will be filled with hanging with the Girl Defined team, doing fun activities together, eating at super delicious and authentic San Antonio restaurants, enjoying our favorite coffee shops, meeting new friends, sightseeing the beautiful San Antonio city, and creating memories between you and your friend. We cannot wait to spend the whole weekend with the six of you! It will be a weekend to remember.

This giveaway is open to everyone everywhere and will include:

-One Weekend in San Antonio

-Flights to and from San Antonio

-Hotel Room for the duration of your stay

-Rental Car for you and the group

-Food while in San Antonio

-Activities with the team!

How to win?

Simply comment on any of our public posts on www.Patreon.com/GirlDefined, letting us know that you’re a part of the Sisterhood and would love to come to San Antonio! You don’t have to be a Patron in order to win. That’s it. We’ll make a public announcement of the winners after we reach 500 Patrons. Yay!

March 12, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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What Should I do with my Sexual Desires as a Single Girl?

As a single Christian girl, do your sexual desires sometimes feel more like a curse than a blessing?!

You look in God’s Word and see His design for sex and marriage, but you secretly wonder if He made a huge mistake by giving you such strong sexual desires now, when they can’t be rightly fulfilled.

March 10, 2021 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Lust, Pornography, Purity, Sex, Sexual Struggles, Singleness, Temptation, Womanhood

Sex and the Single Christian Girl with Dr. Juli Slattery

Ep. 018 – Has your sexuality ever felt more like a curse rather than a blessing? Have you ever wondered why God gave single guys and gals a sex drive? Have you ever strived to truly overcome and find freedom from masturbation, porn, or some other habit? These are concerns and questions that most every single woman thinks or asks at some point in her life. They are important thoughts and they need to be discussed. That is why we brought Dr. Juli Slattery on to The Girl Defined Show to share her insight, wisdom and direction on these crucial topics. Dr. Juli has written a book for single women on the topic of sex. She’s talked and taught extensively on the topics of sex, purity, longings, sexuality and more. 

In today’s episode, Bethany Beal interviews Dr. Juli Slattery in hopes to get answers to your most pressing questions about sex and sexuality. Many of you submitted questions through the Girl Defined IG account for Dr. Juli and she answers them in today's episode.

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March 8, 2021 by Kristen Clark

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