• Skip to main content
  • Skip to footer
GirlDefined
  • Topics
  • Courses
  • Books
  • Shop
  • Donate
  • Kristen & Bethany
    ▼
    • Speaking
    • Statement of Faith
  • Articles
  • Topics
  • Podcast
  • Videos
  • Conference
  • Courses
  • Books
    ▼
    • Not Part of the Plan
    • Girl Defined Book
    • Love Defined
    • Sex, Purity, & Longings
    • Shine Bright
  • Shop
  • Contact
DonateLogin

Questions Christian Girl’s are too Afraid to Ask about Sex

Questions Christian Girl’s are too Afraid to Ask about Sex

Through a private poll, dozens of Christian girls submitted their most curious questions about sex, and we attempted to answer them honestly, candidly, and with respect and honor.

Stick around for this exciting and helpful conversation as we chat about one of the most asked-about topics out there.

March 3, 2021 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Marriage Prep, Purity, Q&A, Sex, Sexual Identity, Sexual Struggles, Singleness, Womanhood

Is it Awkward Being a Virgin on Your Wedding Night?

Ep. 046 – Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much? 

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for marriage and dig into these questions from personal experience. They also share multiple resources that are helpful in mentally, emotionally, physical, and spiritually preparing you for your own honeymoon one day. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, there's something for everyone in this conversation.

FREE BOOK – Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian Girls

BOOK – SEX, PURITY AND THE LONGINGS OF A GIRL'S HEART

GIRL DEFINED WEBSITE

AUTHENTIC INTIMACY

JAVA WITH JULI

INTENDED FOR PLEASURE

DEAR YOUNG MARRIED COUPLE

Support the Show.

Support the Show

FOLLOW US:

GirlDefined.com

Instagram

YouTube

Facebook

Pinterest

March 1, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Podcast

Can I Be a Strong and Bold Girl if I Embrace Biblical Womanhood?

As a Christian girl, have you ever had the fear that if you truly embraced Biblical womanhood you’d become a weak and wimpy person?

We’ve wondered this ourselves over the years.

And here’s the truth. God is all for strong women…just the right kind of strong.

February 24, 2021 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Feminism, Gender, Shine Bright, Truth, Womanhood, Women of the Bible, Worldview

Recovering Womanhood from Toxic Femininity

Ep. 016 – As women, we ALL want to be happy, fulfilled, content, worthy, and loved… but so many women (whether Christian or not) find themselves feeling the opposite. In fact, in researching for Kristen and Bethany's first book, Girl Defined, they came across a study published in the UK Daily Mail which stated, quote: “Women are less happy nowadays despite 40 years of feminism. Despite having more opportunities than ever before, they have a lower sense of well-being and life satisfaction.”

This is heartbreaking. Instead continuing down the same path and hoping for different results, let's ask some hard questions. Let's talk about why women are less happy and less fulfilled. Let's talk about the lies many women believe about their identity.  Let's talk about what the secular world teach about being women in today’s society. Let's talk about toxic femininity.

In today's episode, Kristen Clark and Portia Collins are discussing God's good design for womanhood and offering hope-filled biblical truths to guide the modern girl. 

Support the Show.

Support the Show

FOLLOW US:

GirlDefined.com

Instagram

YouTube

Facebook

Pinterest

February 22, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Podcast

Should I Start Dating if I’m Struggling with Porn?

If you’re a Christian woman who is currently struggling with porn, is it wise to begin a dating relationship? And if you’re currently dating someone, should you push pause on the relationship, or continue on as normal? Let’s talk about this important topic together!

February 17, 2021 by Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal

Filed Under: Videos Tagged With: Dating, Guys, Marriage Prep, Pornography, Purity, Sex, Sexual Struggles, Temptation

Should You Date a Guy Who's Addicted to Porn?

Ep. 015 – We’re talking about the hush-hush topic of porn and answering your question about whether or not you should date a guy who’s addicted to it. According to a recent survey, we're told that at least 75% of christian guys ages 18-30 view porn at least several times a month. Those are not encouraging statistics. So what are we supposed to do? How should we approach this topic? Are guys who struggle with porn on the no-no list"?

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany address the often avoided topic of porn addictions and answer your question as to whether or not should date a guy who's personally struggling with it.

Girl Defined Website

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart

FREEBIE: 136 Questions to Ask in a Relationship

INSTAGRAM @girldefined 

Support the Show.

Support the Show

FOLLOW US:

GirlDefined.com

Instagram

YouTube

Facebook

Pinterest

February 15, 2021 by Kristen Clark

Filed Under: Podcast

« Previous Page
Next Page »

NEW BOOK!

Our newest book, "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God’s Plan for Fearless Femininity" is available now!

Learn More

Before Footer

Footer

Learn More

  • About
  • Speaking
  • Contact
  • Donate
  • Donor’s Login
  • Courses
  • Books
  • Conference
  • Shop
  • Podcast
31 days of proverbs
JOIN THE SISTERHOOD

GET OUR FREE PROVERBS DEVOTIONAL BY SIGNING UP TODAY. PLUS, STAY IN THE LOOP AND RECEIVE WEEKLY ENCOURAGEMENT FROM KRISTEN AND BETHANY.

© 2025 Girl Defined 2021 . All Rights Reserved. Privacy Policy. Website built by Five Q.