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How I Recovered from Being a Desperate Flirt

It started when I was just 12 years old. I knew exactly what I wanted and I knew how to get it. Attention from Brandon was my goal, and flirting was my strategy. I was at a church camp playing knock out (a basketball game) under the pavilion. Time was ticking. My parents would be […]

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An Open Letter to the Women of #ShoutYourAbortion

Dear Women of the #ShoutYourAbortion Movement, I saw your popular hashtag on social media the other day and was instantly curious. I quickly did a google search. After reading many of your articles explaining why you did this, I think I’m beginning to understand. Although you might classify me as a right wing fanatic, I’m […]

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Is Being a Woman More than Getting Married and Having Babies?

If being a woman is strictly about getting married and having babies, then Kristen and I are failing miserably. I don’t have a husband which means I don’t have children and Kristen has a husband but God hasn’t given her children yet. As most of you know I would love to get married (followed by […]

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Why Naughty Girls Don’t Have More Fun

She was bad. She was naughty. She broke all the rules. She lived recklessly. And apparently, she had all the fun. Our modern culture is shoving the idea down our throats that bad girls have more fun. It’s in the movies. It’s in the songs. It’s in the magazines. It’s in the books. You’ve probably […]

What’s a Girl to do When God Forgets to Write Her Love Story?

I grew up reading (and rereading) the insanely popular relationship books on courtship and dating. Titles like, “When God Writes Your Love Story,” “When Dreams Come True,” “I Kissed Dating Goodbye,” “Boy Meets Girl” and several others were well worn books on my bookshelf. As a 14,15,16 and 17-year-old girl I was gung ho on […]

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How Setting Up Boundaries Saved My Virginity

My romantic feelings were intense towards him. I’m typically a clear thinker, but my brain cells had turned instantly cloudy. I had no idea how quickly common sense could abandon my sense of reason. I was in love and on my way to marrying the man of my dreams. During my relationship and “dateship” with […]

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