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Qualities We Each Looked for in a Husband

Before we got married to our (now) husbands, there were specific character qualities and traits that we each prayed for. We weren’t looking for perfect guys (obviously, because we’re not perfect!), but we were looking for godly men who loved the Lord, cared about people, and knew how to keep the fun in life. In […]

Why Chasing After Guys Didn’t Make Me Happy

I went through one of the hardest breakups in my life when I was twenty years old. I was one week away from being engaged when everything suddenly ended. I never saw the ring and my “almost” husband exited my life forever. As difficult as that season was for me, God was graciously sparing me from […]

How to Keep Guy Friends in the Just Friends Zone

Guy friendships. They can be so great and so complicated all at the same time. Have you ever had a guy friendship that ended with hurt feelings and a lot of drama? The two of us sure have. If we, as Christian women, aren’t intentional in our friendships with guys, they can often end up […]

Who Should Do the Pursuing in a Relationship?

You like him and you want a relationship with him. The problem? He isn’t pursuing you. When the two of us were single, we found ourselves in this position time-and-time again. I’m sure you can relate. You notice a guy. You like him. You want to start a relationship. But nothing is happening. It’s pure […]

How to Discern if a Guy Has Godly Character or Not

When I was a single woman, I remember people telling me things like, “be sure to marry a man of godly character!” Or, “make sure you know his true heart.” Or, “don’t settle for anything but a genuinely Christ-focused man.” Okay… I would think to myself. I appreciate the advice, and I agree. These are […]

5 Practical Ways to Guard Your Heart

He was one of the godliest guys I knew. From similar ministry goals to the same taste in music, we had so much in common. He challenged me to follow Jesus and inspired me with his love for God. It didn’t hurt that he was also very good-looking. I’d had crushes before, usually admiring from […]

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