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Erotica: Should Christian Women Read It?

He’s stunningly handsome. She’s drop-dead gorgeous. He’s rich. She’s sexy. He desperately wants a woman in his life. She’s longing for some strong male attention. They meet. They fall in love. It’s not long before their steamy romance turns intensely sexual. Their fantasy seems too good to be true. What is portrayed as the perfect […]

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Can I Wear a Purity Ring if I’m Not a Virgin?

I was 13 years old when my dad gave me my purity ring. He took me to the jewelry store, showed me the rings, and let me pick one out. I chose a silver ring, with swirly shapes, surrounding a purple gem. It was the perfect ring in my little girl eyes. Later that day, […]

3 Ways Porn Deceives Girls About Their Sexuality

I, Bethany, was shocked to hear Jeff (the modeling recruiter) explain to me that all of his models will pose nude. If I wasn’t comfortable with the idea of posing nude, he didn’t want anything to do with me. That interview opened my (and Kristen’s) eyes to the deceptive lies that we, as women, are […]

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The Modern Woman’s Struggle with Sexual Sin

Sexual sin has often received the label of being a “male problem.” However, lust isn’t a male problem — it’s a human problem, and women are desperately struggling too. If you struggle to be open and honest about your own sexual sin,  see if any of these lies are at the root of your struggle: […]

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5 Reasons Girls Aren’t Honest About their Sexual Struggles

Being honest about my past struggles with sexual sin and masturbation wasn’t easy. In fact, I didn’t want to be honest about it. I didn’t want to confess it. I wanted to shove those sins into the deepest darkest corner never to be seen again. But I knew that wouldn’t work. Sin always has a […]

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Jesus Died So We Could Be Freed from Our Secret Sins

After months of pure misery, Natasha couldn’t keep the secrets to herself any longer. They were tearing her life apart piece by piece. Every secret she kept only made it harder for her to reveal what was really going on in her life. Natasha was a friend of mine. She called me one night on the […]

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