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Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

ByKristen Clark
Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

ByBethany Beal
Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

ByKristen Clark
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10 Tips to Keep Your Heart Focused on Jesus

ByBethany Beal
Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

When I was a teen girl, I remember having moments where I viewed God’s boundaries for sexual purity as a bit…well — annoying. Striving for purity in my heart and mind wasn’t easy, and I struggled to keep my thoughts pure. I would find myself grumbling in my heart about how tough the single life […]

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12 Days of Christmas with Girl Defined

I would never, ever think of myself as a Christmas Grinch. I love the Christmas season so much! I play Christmas music 24/7. I embrace gift giving wholeheartedly. I love the seasonal coffee drinks. I’m nothing like the Grinch. Or so I thought. With Christmas music playing in the background of my house, a shocking reality […]

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The Pros and Cons of Online Dating

If you’ve ever thought about using online dating, this vlog will help you to weigh the pros and cons before getting online. Possible Pros of Online Dating: 1. It can help differentiate the intentional from the non-intentional. 2. It expands your pool of fish. 3. Personality, religion, and preference matches. 4. You can make your […]

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How Old Should I Be Before Getting into a Serious Relationship?

I looked at the caller ID on my pink razor flip phone and immediately got sweaty palms. I was 16 years old and was committed to only pursuing a relationship when I was ready or able to consider the possibility of marriage. As a 16-year-old girl, I knew I wasn’t ready. And I knew the […]

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3 Powerful Truths for Embracing True Beauty and Lasting Worth

I looked in the mirror and knew exactly what I was missing. More eyeliner. I’m not talking about a nice top line that frames the eye and accentuates the eyes. No. I’m talking about raccoon style eyeliner. I’m talking about loads and loads around the top and bottom of the eye. I’m talking about so […]

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Why Modern Girls Should Champion the Role of Motherhood

What if you had to pay your mom $40 every time you spent time with her? That’d be crazy right? Well…not if you live in New York City. Apparently having a mom to talk to is worth a lot more than most of us realize. In fact, a lady named Nina decided to start a […]

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Breaking Free From the Beauty Comparison Trap

Like little girls my sweet friend and I sat on the floor with our legs crisscrossed and dreamed about her soon-to-be-marriage. As the giggles and squeals slowly wore off, I asked my friend if she was ready to share all of herself and her life with another person. With a thoughtful look on her face, […]

What Love, Weddings, and Marriage Teach us About God

She was absolutely breathtaking. With a smile the size of Texas and eyes as bright as the sun, she slowly walked toward her groom. This was the long awaited moment in both of their lives. With his gaze locked onto the radiant face of his bride, the groom smiled and shook his head in delightful […]

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