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Why I’m Still Saving My First Kiss for My Future Husband

The moment I announced my relationship with David the questions started flooding my inbox. Specifically questions about our physical boundaries. Will we hold hands? Do use a chaperone? Do we hug? Do we do stuff alone? What about being alone at night? In a house? Etc etc. I totally get it. I would be asking […]

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Guys and Romance: Your Most Popular Questions Answered

When I was a single girl, I regularly had questions about guys rolling around in my head. From what I’ve seen, this is pretty normal for any single girl. I know many of you have guy questions too because you ask them through your comments, emails, and social media messages. So, these types of questions […]

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Twenty Nine Years Old and Never Been Kissed

When I committed to this whole “saving my first kiss for marriage,” I never imagined I’d have to wait 29+ years. I imagined I would be married by twenty-one or twenty-two years old (okay, twenty-three at the latest). Trust me when I say that I never imagined I would be twenty-nine and never been kissed. […]

4 Goals for Your Love Life This Year

Maybe this will finally be my year for finding true love! I thought to myself. As the clock struck midnight, the New Year sparked feelings of hope and excitement. It had been several months since my devastating breakup and I was grateful to leave that behind. The New Year seemed to usher in a fresh […]

Top 5 Most Shared and Liked Posts from 2017

Over this past year, many of you have shared how God used the Girl Defined blog posts and vlogs to help you overcome the darkest of sins, relationship struggles, guy complications, unfulfilled longings, growing in your walk with God, and much, much more. God is so good and He’s done amazing things in your lives […]

Reflect with Kristen and Bethany on the Wonder of Jesus

Jesus. The name above all names. The person who changed the course of history. The reason we have hope. The reason we have purpose. The reason we can live for something more satisfying than climbing the corporate ladder, chasing beauty, or accumulating wealth. The two of us hope that you can take some time on […]

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