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Do You Ever Feel Like God is a Cosmic Killjoy?

I can only imagine what pop culture would say if they read the Girl Defined blog. They would probably request that we be sent to the insane asylum for crazy thinking. In fact, some of you might think we are at the top of the crazy meter, too. Let me offer you some words of […]

Guy looking. Girl Defined

How to Change a Guy from a Frog into a Hero

“Guys are stupid.” “Girls are smarter.” “Girls are better than boys.” “Guys don’t know anything.” “Guys don’t have common sense.” These are some of the statements Bethany and I heard again and again from the girls we interviewed during our Girl Defined video (watch here). Our poor brother was behind the camera and later commented […]

Why Do Girls Always Ask, “Is He Cute?”

It happened twice in one week. I went out to coffee with two different friends, two separate times, both in the same week. Like any normal girls, we talked about the latest “guy updates” in our lives. Here is how our conversation went: Friend: “Soooo, any guy updates in your life?” Me: “Not really any major […]

Girl staring. Girldefined.com

Why Feminism and Christianity Can’t Mix

Let’s play a quick game. It’s called “What comes to mind when you hear the word?” Here we go. First word: Men. What came to mind? Be honest. Next word. Marriage. What popped into your head? Next word: Equality Hmmm…that’ll get a variety of thoughts. What’d you think of? Last word: Feminism Oh yeah. Now […]

I’ll Keep My Clothes On, Thank You

I vividly remember my one and only interview with a local modeling agency. The director pulled out the personal information sheet and slid it across the desk. I scanned through the pages and my hands started to sweat. What was I going to tell this guy? I was supposed to mark down which categories of […]

Girl thinking | Girl Defined

Turning Your “Husband Wish List” On Yourself

It was one of those winter days where you’re never quite warm enough, unless you’re curled up in a big bed with a soft blanket and a good book. I didn’t have anything else to do, so I pulled the covers all around me, and instead of a book, I chose my journal. I had […]

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