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Why I’m Still Saving My First Kiss for My Future Husband

The moment I announced my relationship with David the questions started flooding my inbox. Specifically questions about our physical boundaries. Will we hold hands? Do use a chaperone? Do we hug? Do we do stuff alone? What about being alone at night? In a house? Etc etc. I totally get it. I would be asking […]

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Guys and Romance: Your Most Popular Questions Answered

When I was a single girl, I regularly had questions about guys rolling around in my head. From what I’ve seen, this is pretty normal for any single girl. I know many of you have guy questions too because you ask them through your comments, emails, and social media messages. So, these types of questions […]

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Twenty Nine Years Old and Never Been Kissed

When I committed to this whole “saving my first kiss for marriage,” I never imagined I’d have to wait 29+ years. I imagined I would be married by twenty-one or twenty-two years old (okay, twenty-three at the latest). Trust me when I say that I never imagined I would be twenty-nine and never been kissed. […]

4 Goals for Your Love Life This Year

Maybe this will finally be my year for finding true love! I thought to myself. As the clock struck midnight, the New Year sparked feelings of hope and excitement. It had been several months since my devastating breakup and I was grateful to leave that behind. The New Year seemed to usher in a fresh […]

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50 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Get the Guy

For the past few years, we’ve received many emails asking for help in the area of romantic relationships. How can I really know if he’s a solid guy? What if He’s not a Christian? How I do I know what to ask him? What topics are important to discuss? What are red flags? Am I […]

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Wisdom In Choosing to Wait for a Man of God

I’m in my early twenties with many friends in serious relationships, getting engaged and getting married. I’ve been to 5 weddings in the last 2 years. In that space of time, I’ve been on a small handful of dates and tried to test the waters with a few guys. I may have lain in bed […]

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