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You Are Not Your Job Title

I stuffed over 400 envelopes yesterday. For seven hours, I folded letters, placed them in envelopes, and sealed them. At the end of my eight-hour shift, all I had to show for it was two boxes of filled envelopes. I felt slightly triumphant…but also incredibly disgusted. While I’m thankful to have a summer internship, I […]

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3 Lies Christian Good Girls Believe

I’m a Christian good girl. You know: the kind who’s never rebelled against her parents or gotten involved with the wrong crowd. The kind who’s busy doing ministry, who posts Scripture verses on Facebook and Christian quotes on Instagram stories, and has memorized a book of the Bible . . .  You know the kind […]

Overcoming the Trap of Living to be Liked

Living for the approval of others is something that we all struggle with. Whether it’s at school, the workplace, church, or through social media, it’s something every single one of us will face. The two of us have wrestled with this throughout our entire lives. We often lose sight of God and begin focusing on […]

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Standing Firm When You Feel Unloved and Rejected

The waves of accusations crashing against my mind began something like this: No one loves you. You don’t have even one true friend who cares about you. You are unwanted; you always have been, and you always will be. The world would be better off if you were dead. The waves of this particular mental assault began about […]

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When You Feel Unloved and Forgotten

Life can be really hard at times. Friends reject us. Parents get divorced. A Boyfriend ends the relationship. The list goes on. During these difficult times, it can often feel like we are unloved and totally forgotten. The circumstances around us tempt us to feel like even God has forgotten us. If you are going […]

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Good Christian Girl, Stop Finding Worth in Your Goodness

I’m her. I’m the good girl. The girl who was born into a Christian home. The girl who memorized John 3:16 as soon as she could speak. The girl who never went through a rebellious stage. The girl who never had a boyfriend in high school and never dated around. Yep, that’s me. The good […]

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