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bethy and dav

How Writing a Book on Sex Helped Me as a Newlywed

First off, I never ever imagined I’d write a book on sex. Secondly, I never ever imagined that I’d write a book on sex as an unmarried woman. Who does that? I’d never had sex and yet I was writing a book on sex. It’s a little strange sounding. I know. Looking back on the […]

3 Biblical Truths About our Sexual Design

Every single one of us is born as a sexual being. We’re all born with a sexual design given to us by our Creator. Our sexuality wasn’t an afterthought, but an intentional part of God’s good plan for us. He created us to be fully sexual and fully human from the moment we were conceived. […]

Kristen and Bethany

Celebrate! Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart is Here!

We are so excited to announce that Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart: Discovering the Beauty and Freedom of God-DefinedSexuality officially released today!!! Today is a day of celebration. A day to celebrate all that God has done and is going to do. We are in awe of His incredible grace and mercy in our […]

Kristen and Bethany

Why We Wrote Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart

Writing a book on God’s design for sexuality wasn’t exactly a lifelong dream of ours . . . but when we saw the hundreds of emails flooding our inbox from the Girl Defined sisterhood asking tough questions about sexuality, a fire was ignited within our hearts. When our publisher asked us to write a third book, […]

How to Deal with Secret Sexual Struggles

My heart was pounding. My hands were sweating. I knew I needed to be honest about my struggle but it was the last thing in the world I wanted to do. Especially to my parents. However, as scared as I was of being honest, I couldn’t bear the weight of my secret any longer. As […]

Dav and Bethy

Was Being a Virgin on my Wedding Night Awkward?

I was a thirty-year-old virgin on my wedding night. That isn’t a shock to any of you who’ve followed my story. In fact, many of you sent me emails and DM’s before I got married asking me if I was nervous about the wedding night. I responded to your questions through a blog post titled: […]

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