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Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

ByKristen Clark
Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

ByBethany Beal
Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

ByKristen Clark
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10 Tips to Keep Your Heart Focused on Jesus

ByBethany Beal
Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

When I was a teen girl, I remember having moments where I viewed God’s boundaries for sexual purity as a bit…well — annoying. Striving for purity in my heart and mind wasn’t easy, and I struggled to keep my thoughts pure. I would find myself grumbling in my heart about how tough the single life […]

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6 Questions to Ask Before Creating an Online Dating Profile

He was cute. She was pretty. He was confident. She was as sweet as apple pie. He was strong. She was beautiful. Jeremy and Katie are one very attractive couple. Not only are they attractive, but they are really godly too! They are both extremely involved in their church, missions, and love their families very […]

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Does Being Single Make Me Less Sexual?

I’m twenty-nine years old and I’ve never had sex. It’s not because I don’t want to, it’s just because I’ve chosen to wait until I’m married to have sex. Throughout my many years of being single and not having sex, I’ve had a lot of questions.   I’ve wondered about many aspects of my purity […]

Kristen’s Love Story with Zack – Part 2

“With the sun setting over the beautiful Texas hill country, Zack got down on one knee and asked me to become his wife. As a gorgeous diamond ring sparkled in front of me, I looked into his brown eyes and couldn’t imagine spending my life with anyone else. With tears of joy streaming down my […]

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Kristen’s Love Story with Zack – Part 1

It was a warm Texas afternoon in May of 2006 when I laid eyes on Zack Clark for the very first time. I still remember the exact moment I noticed him. I was attending a Christian conference with my family and He was sitting several rows in front of us. I’ll be honest, his strong […]

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Seduction: Using Feminine Allure in the Right Way

Standing in front of my bedroom mirror, I checked-out at my new jeans. I thought to myself, you look seriously hot. I had been working out a lot, my skin was tan from being in the sun, and my new jeans were snug around my hips. Looking at myself up and down, I knew the guys […]

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Part 2: Embracing God’s Vision for Love and Romance

Check out Part 1 if you missed it! God created Love and Romance. God invented Marriage. He is the Creator, therefore He knows best. Instead of looking to Hollywood for answers about true love, we need to look to the author of love Himself.  Jesus put His love on display through His sacrificial actions. True love is an […]

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When God Doesn’t Give You What You Prayed For

I was desperate. With tears flowing down my face, I held my limp little puppy in my arms. This puppy had only been mine for 4 days. Addie was sweet and energetic and had the cutest little eyes. I was already deeply bonded with her. Even though she was just a dog, she came into […]

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