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Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

Should a Christian Girl Date a Guy Who Struggles With Porn?

ByKristen Clark
Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

Trusting God With Your Guy Crush

ByBethany Beal
Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

Halloween: When Nice Girls Turn Naughty for One Day

ByKristen Clark
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10 Tips to Keep Your Heart Focused on Jesus

ByBethany Beal
Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

Fighting Lust with the Power of Gratitude

When I was a teen girl, I remember having moments where I viewed God’s boundaries for sexual purity as a bit…well — annoying. Striving for purity in my heart and mind wasn’t easy, and I struggled to keep my thoughts pure. I would find myself grumbling in my heart about how tough the single life […]

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When Girls Unknowingly Tempt Guys Toward Lust

I was standing in line at my local grocery store when an obnoxious magazine caught my eye. I’m used to seeing half-naked women on the cover of tabloids, but this image seemed even too edgy for a tabloid. A small wave of anger rushed over me as I thought of the innocent children and husbands […]

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7 Major Benefits of Saving Sex for Marriage – Part 2

I am sharing 7 major benefits of saving sex for marriage. This is the 2nd half of a two part series, so if you didn’t catch the first post, check it out here. You don’t want to miss it! 4. You Set Yourself Apart as Being Highly Valuable Girl, God says you are highly valuable […]

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7 Major Benefits of Saving Sex for Marriage – Part 1

I didn’t have sex until I got married. Zip. Zilch. Nada. According to our modern culture, I am nothing more than an ignorant, non-liberated, trapped female, stuck in the age of patriarchy. I didn’t express my sexual “freedom” like I should. I didn’t take advantage of the feminist’s offer to access free birth control as […]

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6 Guys You Definitely Don’t Want to Marry

I’ll never forget the days of being an innocent teen girl who viewed the world through rose colored glasses. I assumed the best of most everyone and figured a guy who claimed to be a Christian, had good manners, and was interested in me, must be a solid catch. And then I grew up. Reality […]

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The Suffering Single

“Will he ever come along?” “Will she ever show up?” These are common questions young singles ask when no relationship materializes – or at least none that resulted in marriage. Why does a loving God allow us to experience this loneliness? Why do we have this longing for a relationship at all? Deep down, we all […]

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Hot Christian Girls Desperately Needed

I can almost hear you thinking, “she can’t really mean what the title of this blog says. There’s gotta be something else to this.” You are right. There is something else to this blog. Although this blog is about being a “hot girl” it’s not the kind of hot you typically associate with that word. […]

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6 Resolutions For A Better Single Life This Year

Over the past couple of weeks I’ve seen several trending blog posts pop up on my social media feed with titles like, “10 Ways to Make Your Marriage Thrive This Year.” Or “4 Steps to Become a Better Wife This Year.” I see those blogs posts and I love them. I love that married men […]

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